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The rose is withered, the honeybee still sucks desperately, because it sucked from this flower in the past too happy. However, on this flower, what the honeybee sucked is venom now.
The honeybee knows this, because of the venom bitterness, as far apart as heaven and earth with the taste in the past. Then, however, it sucks one and raises one's head to the whole world to complain in honeybee's anger, why did taste become? !
At last one day, did not know what reason it was, honeybee's vibration wings, it is a bit too high to fly. At this moment, it finds, the withered rose is a flower everywhere around.

[The psychology is commented on ]
This is about the fable of the love, and a young Chinese teacher's true feeling.
For some time, she failed in love, very painful, been wanting to invite me to have a chat all the time, has hoped my psychology gains knowledge and gives her some help. We made an appointment, but nearly two months passed by, two people's time can't happen to gather together.
Inviting her for the last time, she says: "Thanks! No, I want to understand. "
Originally, she just came back from Jiu Zhaigou. The agony of failing in love is still pestering her, let her look be in a trance, can't enjoy the beauty of Jiu Zhaigou. When being careless, she sees a little honeybee is picking the honey on a flower. That is in a flash, the electricity has flashed and presented a word thunderously in her brain: "On the withered flower, the honeybee can only suck the venom. "
Certainly, the little honeybee in the nature will not do so, it is so silly that there is only the mankind, the honeybee in this sentence of hers certainly means herself. This instant, the reason given up happened in her insight. In the past, she want, let me help her come out, but wing grow in herself on one's body actually, she can fly as one wishes.
It is difficult to give up, giving up in the love is especially painful. Because the love is the replication of relation of our young parent-offspring as a child. Immature child, no matter from which respect looks, are all due to Papa and Mama. If Papa and Mama totally deny him, that means the death for him, this is ultimate injury and frightened. We have experienced the agony and frightened denied by Papa and Mama more or less, so, look on as the love - --When the replica of this parent-offspring's relation lets us experience this kind of agony and fear again, our mood is very easy to become very terrible.
However, compared with parent-offspring's relation, there is an enormous difference in the love: As a child, we were powerless, all was that the parents had the final say; But now, we grow up, our strong destiny that go to choose oneself. We can say, during one's childhood, we are little honeybees which does not have wings, but now, we have a pair of strong wings.
However, while falling into the love deeply, we will come back in childhood, we will forget to have a pair of wings that can hover oneself. After we realize this by oneself, the love no longer will be duplicating automatically to parent-offspring's relation, our love obtained freedom, there is strength given up.
Make sure to keep in mind: The love is two people's thing, the things of two totally equal ones, persons who has independent personality. You can be diligent, but does not say, it must have a result that you are diligent, because of another person, you can not control.
So, no matter how you mind love, if another person will leave you firmly, please respect his choice.
And, will remember, you are no longer childhood, can only allow the torment of the agony. You have already grown up, you have a pair of strong wings, you can well fly out of a relation that has already turned into poison.
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